Attractiveness

IMAGE IS EVERYTHING

How we see ourselves and how others see us, are completely different things altogether. The image we portray on the world, is something we have the power to influence, but how our image is perceived by others is totally out of our control.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so they say. But there are some clear physical indicators that can sway the majority. For example, facial symmetry has been cited as a reliable marker for measuring one's attractiveness. These physical traits are what we're born with. Health is another marker. Clear skin, bright eyes and general vitality are clear signs of a healthy person, advertising their good genetics perhaps. We can improve much on what we're already given through lifestyle, exercise and styling choices etc.

A lot of the cues we pick up on, are biologically hard-wired for reproduction purposes. When sourcing a suitable partner, many would say athleticism is a good all-around measure of one's health and capabilities. For women seeking a mate, broad shoulders and height will feature in the subconscious decision-making. As for men, the breast size, fullness of the lips and hip-to-waist ratio will play a factor.

Money
Aside from the physical attributes, which are mostly governed by subconscious reproductive desires, there are also psychological considerations at play. There are very clear differences between what men and women want from a partner and often, physical attractiveness will come lower down the list than resourcefulness – especially for women. Bringing up children, requires a stable financial base and money can provide the resources for making a nest. It's potentially why older, less physically attractive, wealthier men tend to fare so well with beautiful women. Although financial stability is attractive for forming relationships, the selection processes won't necessarily boil down to simply having money.

Social Standing
It's true that folks with financial wealth, tend to have better prospects and greater connections through their network. Having the money to buy into elite circles, can facilitate greater access to more resources via social standing. Both men and women alike, are drawn towards those with better access to a social ladder. Having good connections can be useful, but having connections at hand is not a guarantee that success will follow.

Confidence
How we portray ourselves to others, is very much dependent on how we feel about ourselves inside. Therefore, we need to love who we are and feel totally comfortable in our own skin for contentment. Exuding happiness, well-being and confidence to the outside world, will increase our attractiveness above and beyond the physical, financial and social aspects.

Confidence attracts success and we become more interesting to onlookers as a result. Self-belief in one's abilities, can increase the probability of success in sport, business or whatever we put our minds to. Belief in a positive outcome for our ventures, will relieve us of anxiety and enforce stability. Others will trust us and want to be a part of what we are doing. Confidence can conquer all negatives through believing in ourselves more, because success comes to those who strive for it and everyone ultimately, loves a winner...